DO YOU KNOW IT'S TIME TO GROW, BUT AREN'T ENTIRELY SURE HOW OR IN WHAT DIRECTION YOU SHOULD GO TO DO IT?
AND YOU'RE A LITTLE (OR A LOT) SCARED TOO?
I KNOW, I'VE BEEN THERE TOO.
NOT KNOWING WHAT DIRECTION TO TURN TO.
That’s actually what drove me to a pre-mid-life crisis a while back.
Smack dap in the middle of my 30's I found myself depressed and incredibly dissatisfied, but I didn’t know how to make sense of any of it because I also thought I had a really good life. I didn't know where to start or where to find safe and effective support in addressing some of the really scary bits of awareness and reality developing in my mind.
I ignored all this, until like a pressure cooker that suppression imploded and exploded.
It was messy.
It wasn’t all for lack of awareness, avoidance, nor insufficiency of resources, I also tend to learn things the hard way.
I've actually found that the hard way bears the greatest fruits, and offers the highest probability of intrigue and intellectual advantage. I'm attracted to it.
And maybe you too?
While some tend to lean harder into the hard way, I think we all maybe sit on this spectrum, it's a human tradition.
Why else would we choose this this devastating, albeit beautiful, human experience if there wasn't intrigue, creative potential, and intellectual/evolutionary advantage?
We all are tortured artists maybe. And either way ...
Life gets messy.
And then where do we go?
I WILL GIVE YOU A MAP FOR SELF GROWTH, BUT IT'S YOU WHO WILL TELL ME WHAT'S ON IT.
THE WHEN, WHERE, HOW AND WHY THAT WE FIND TOGETHER, WILL BE YOUR OWN,
Be it vocational or circumstantial difficulty, the school of diverse life experiences, ripe with pain, has expanded my view of reality and showed me how to find unconventional solutions and fuel for growth and evolution.
I’m not special. And frankly my mid-life crisis story is all too common and entirely unoriginal.
All of this means; you also have the capability to transform your life and create something different with it. You too can learn how to resource language, read the subconscious, derive evolutionary material from pleasure, and certainly pain, as fodder for your brightness.
I'VE LEARNED HOW TO ETHICALLY HOLD SPACE, AND CONTINUALLY CREATE IT FOR PEOPLE JUST LIKE YOU.